Meet theNew Member of My Family

By Erik Torkells
September 25, 2007

After talking about it for years—seriously, years—my partner, Adam, and I finally adopted a dog, a pug we named Howard.

We certainly got a taste of what it's like to benew parents. For all the joy, however, I've found it frustrating that I can't travel the way I used to. Bringing Howard along has seemed too difficult, but none of our friends really want to take care of him. And you can't just lock your dog in the attic the way you can your kids.

When we were invited to a wedding at Keswick Hall, a fancy hotel in Charlottesville, Va., we decided to take Howard with us. (Not to the ceremony: The bride vetoed that.) He enjoyed his weekend—as a city dog, he finds grass to be a big event—but I didn't enjoy his being there all that much. He barked whenever someone walked down the hallway, and I was convinced that the other guests thought we were weird to bring our dog. "We're eccentric!" Adam said. If you ask me, the fact that we were two men made us eccentric enough. I like to be sort of anonymous when I travel, and pugs weren't exactly designed to fly under the radar. Pugs weren't designed for much of anything at all.

Our next trip is to Newport Beach, Calif., and Adam wanted to bring Howard on that trip, too, so we bought him tickets ($95 each way) on our flights. But after Charlottesville, I realized that I need a vacation from all of my responsibilities, and that includes the little booger (Howard, not Adam). We cajoled some friends into helping out, and Continental Airlines, amazingly enough, refunded the money. I'm probably a terrible parent for so looking forward to the trip—but I'm sure I'll miss him like crazy.

 

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Trip Coach: September 25, 2007

Imissoula, Mont.: Regarding Las Vegas, I am coming in for a seminar at the MGM Grand in a couple of weeks. Should I stay there and if so, how should I go about it? If not there, then where and how since I don't want to drive while I am there. I haven't been to Vegas in 20-plus years, so I am a bit out of it. I will be there three or four days in October. Bob Sehlinger: I'd recommend staying at the MGM Grand if it fits your budget. If you're looking for a less expensive room, try the Tropicana or Hooters, both located across the street from the MGM Grand. _______________________ Tampa, Fla.: Is it possible to get any deals for accommodations and/or entertainment over the Thanksgiving holiday weekend? Bob Sehlinger: There's always deals. Check out lasvegasadvisor.com, a great independent site that lists deals. _______________________ Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada: Hi! A friend and I are going to be in Las Vegas at the end of November. Is there anything museum-ish going on then? Bob Sehlinger: Try the Bellagio Gallery of Fine Art or the Guggenheim Hermitage Museum at the Venetian. Two of my personal favorites are the Bodies Exhibition at the Tropicana (looks gross but isn't) and the Atomic Energy Museum at 755 E. Flamingo. Here you can hunker down in a bunker for a simulated nuclear bomb test detonation. _______________________ Cedar Rapids, Iowa: Can you recommend a reasonably priced hotel with a pool that is clean, safe and located off the 'strip' but fairly close to the entertainment? Bob Sehlinger: On the Strip, try the Sahara, Circus Circus, and Casino Royal. Just off the Strip, Hooters is usually a good buy. _______________________ Brunswick, Maine: Why are the hotel prices so high on the weekends? I thought there was a surplus of hotel rooms. Bob Sehlinger: In a word (OK two words) Southern California. Every weekend tens of thousands of Southern Californians head for Las Vegas. Also big sporting events, concerts, and other special entertainment is primarily scheduled for the weekend. _______________________ Richmond, Va.: We are combining the Grand Canyon with Las Vegas the week of Dec. 15th, 2007 and plan to take the overnight mule trip down the canyon. What's the weather like? Bob Sehlinger: You should be prepared for just about anything. The weather is all over the map in December. Average high temperature on the Canyon rim is about 50 degrees. Average low at river level is around 33 degrees. _______________________ Ventura, Calif.: Regarding Las Vegas (Sin City), there are many of us attractive single senior ladies (perhaps men also) who would enjoy going to visit more ofter if we knew which is the best place to stay at with people in our age range. It would be nice to know a spot that has dancing and entertainment where one can mingle and enjoy ourselves. Also it would be nice to be able to get rooms at a single rate rather then double occupancies. Believe me there is a need to know and there is a demand for this type of information especially when we have the time to travel and enjoy life! Do consider this question. Many thanks. Bob Sehlinger: There's really not a place that matches your description perfectly, but Harrah's, the Flamingo, and the Tropicana come close. Off the Strip, consider Sam's Town and the Gold Coast. Regarding rooms, most rates are the same in Las Vegas for single occupancy as for double occupancy. _______________________ Bensalem, Pa.: I will be traveling to Las Vegas in December. I seem to remember someone telling me about a place in Vegas to purchase same day show tickets for half price. This would be similar to TKTS in New York. Do you have any information on this? Thank you. Bob Sehlinger: There are 2 half-price ticket outlets, Tickets2Nite and Tix4Tonight with several locations around LV. You have to buy tickets the day of the show and tickets for the big shows like the Cirque du Soleil productions are rarely available, but otherwise there's a pretty good selection. _______________________ Holden Beach, N.C.: Bob, my husband and I are planning to renew our wedding vows in Las Vegas next September 21. It will be our 40th anniversary and we are hoping to have a fun time with our family and friends. We're not looking for any thing serious; in fact we are considering an Elvis ceremony. About 20 people will be joining us and we'd like to have a cocktail party after the big event. We would also like to get a block of tickets for O and Bette Midler. Since we've never been to Las Vegas, we are at a loss as to where to begin our planning. We would appreciate any advice you could give us. Thanks, Pat Bob Sehlinger: There are so many weddings in LV that most hotels have a dedicated wedding planner/coordinator who can handle all your needs. _______________________ Toronto, Ontario: As first time visitors to Vegas this November, we're looking forward to lots of excitement. But can you recommend any quiet/ relaxing activities for couples, away from the hustle and bustle? My boyfriend and I will be participating in the Vegas marathon and will likely be craving some R&R afterwards. Thank you! Bob Sehlinger: I'd stay outdoors. Try hiking or the scenic drive at Red Rock Canyon, Mountain Biking in Cottonwood Valley. Visiting the pine forests of the Spring Mountains (45 minute drive) or renting a houseboat on Lake Mead also come to mind. _______________________ Barre, Vt.: I will be in Vegas for 4 days beginning Oct.25. Any pointers on which Cirque show to see? Best price? Should we go on a weeknight? Bob Sehlinger: Mystere is my all time favorite Cirque show, followed by LOVE, Ka, Zumanity, and O. Weeknights are better. _______________________ Yonkers, N.Y.: What's the best and most economical way to book different shows in Las Vegas for this coming December, 2007? Bob Sehlinger: If it's a big show like Celine, Cirque shows, or major celebrity headliners or concerts, go ahead and book as soon as possible through the box office of the host hotel or through Ticket Master. For all other shows, but same day half price tickets at Tix4Tonight or Tickets2Nite. _______________________ Santa Ana, Calif.: Could you recommend a good inexpensive restaurant in Las Vegas? Bob Sehlinger: Try Lotus of Siam in the Commercial Center off Sahara Ave. _______________________ Lowell, Mass.: Who has the best "Bingo" for the buck? Where can I find Bingos with worthwhile prizes while not having to spend $40 or more just to play a less than one hour session? Bob Sehlinger: Red Rock Resort is the best casino for bingo. South Point is also excellent. _______________________ Charleston, S.C.: My husband and I will be in Vegas the weekend of October 12th for my 25th high school reunion. Where would you suggest we go for a good Japanese lunch on the strip? Bob Sehlinger: My favorite is Hyakumi at Caesars Palace. _______________________ Shelby Twp, Mich.: We are going to Las Vegas 10/24-10/27/2007. We would like to play golf, at a reasonable rate,under $120/person? Any suggestions? --Chris Bob Sehlinger: The Siena Golf Club, the Highland Falls Golf Club, and the Las Vegas Golf Club all meet your requirements. Of the 3, Siena is the best course. _______________________ New York, N.Y.: What is the best buffet in Las Vegas? Bob Sehlinger: The Wynn Buffet, followed by the Bellagio Buffet, Paris Le Village Buffet, and the Mirage Cravings Buffet. A best buy is the Orleans French Market Buffet. _______________________ Charleston, W.Va.: My husband and I are going to Vegas in December to celebrate our 5th anniversary (we also got married there). Which hotel would you recommend to help us celebrate this special occasion? Money is somewhat of an object, although we are considering the Bellagio. Thanks for your assistance. Bob Sehlinger: Bellagio is fine but expensive. Others in the same class are Caesars and Wynn. Equal in quality but usually not as pricey is the Signature Condos and the MGM Grand. Because it's brand new, there are usually some good deals available. For romance, you can't beat the Red Rock Resort west of town by Red Rock Canyon. _______________________ Houston, Tex.: We will be traveling to Las Vegas Nov. 29 for four nights. We are two "fifty-something" couples. We have traveled to LV many times, enjoying many casinos, shows, strip activities, but for this trip we are wanting to do the Grand Canyon air tour. I am not sure where to start! Best tour, best buy , best experience--thats what I am looking for--can you give some insight? Thanks. Bob Sehlinger: Check out thanksbabs.com. Babs is the go to person for canyon trips and adventure activities. _______________________ Raleigh, N.C.: How do you get the best prices on the big shows? Bob Sehlinger: Some showrooms have lower prices for balcony seating or back of the house seats. Usually you can see just fine from these seats. Ticket discounts for the top shows are rare. _______________________ Thornwood, N.Y.: My elderly, widowed mother has Alzheimer's and I have asthma. I also have two teenagers who I am raising alone. I love to travel and with the demands on my life, I need to escape when I can. However, since my mother lives with me (and I am her full-time caregiver), and I cannot afford to pay for care for her to take a vacation (it would put the cost of the vacation over my reach), I have to take her with me wherever I go. So, my question is this, is there anywhere in Vegas where I could stay (non-casino hotel to avoid smokers--my asthma can't handle cigarettes) and that could entertain my teenagers plus take care of my mother (like a babysitter for the elderly)? Plus, as more and more of our nation's seniors fall victim to Alzheimer's, and this disease lasts years so families try to live normal lives as much as possible, are our nations hotels, airlines, restaurants, etc. trying to accommodate us? Or I am expected to be a shut-in alongside my mother for possibly the next 15 years of my life and never travel anywhere because the travel industry can't handle this? Bob Sehlinger: The new Signature Condos at the MGM Grand are situated away from the casino and have their own private entrance. Red Rock Resort would also be good, plus it's located near Red Rock Canyon and a lot of adventure activities for the teens. _______________________ San Diego, Calif.: Where can I still find "old time Vegas" where I can play blackjack for a dollar, pai-gow poker for $5, have breakfast for 77 cents, enjoy a buffet for $5, and see a good show for the cost of 2 drinks? Bob Sehlinger: Downtown Las Vegas. _______________________ Fallston, MD: I have always heard that the slots are "looser" at the casinos off the strip. Is this a myth perpetrated by the older, less fashionable casinos? Is there any way to know whether there is any truth to this shiboleth? Bob Sehlinger: Machines are programmed to return a certain % of the money played over the long term. Because off-Strip casinos compete for locals repeat clientele they often program their machines to give a higher return than Strip casinos. _______________________ Bob Sehlinger: That's about it for today. Thanks so much for your good questions. My apologies for any questions that didn't get answered. Safe travels. Bob

New York at a Price That's Right

New York City hotels charge nearly $300 a night on average. But with some persistence, it's possible to book a far more affordable place that's central, comfortable, and—sometimes—even charming. Be sure to plan well in advance. Most hotels recommend you make reservations at least one month before your arrival. Others encourage you to book months ahead. Some hotels require a certain minimum-night stay. Some booking strategiesWhile not new, the blind-booking websites Priceline and Hotwire are terrific sources for discounted rooms in Manhattan (and elsewhere). These sites won't name the hotel (or airline or car-rental company) you're working with until your bid has been accepted and your credit card has been charged. But rest assured, these websites work with respected hotels, so you should receive a quality room in Manhattan if you bid on three- and four-star hotels. For help with your bidding, check out biddingfortravel.com and betterbidding.com, which are user's guides to Priceline and Hotwire. Be sure to consider mid-market national chains such as Hampton Inn and Courtyard by Marriott, which have been moving into New York City. These hotels offer newly constructed buildings and often provide substantial breakfasts, unlimited local calls, and free Internet access in their lobbies. Best of all, these mid-market chains charge up to 30 percent less than comparable local independents. For more info, read our article New Hotels in New York City. Still, there's the obvious trade-off: try as they might, hotel chains lack local character. If independently owned lodging with some personality is what you want, consider Budget Travel's picks for affordable New York City hotels. ABINGDON GUEST HOUSE'Hood The West Village, a downtown area with tree-lined streets and no skyscrapers. Landmarks include the Village Vanguard jazz club and chef Mario Batali's Babbo.First Impression The English countryside meets the city in these two dainty, 19th-century town houses.The Rooms Each of the nine rooms has tasteful features; the Garden Room, for example, has green walls, exposed brick, and an adjoining outdoor garden. Bathrooms are private, whether en suite or adjacent to a room.Plus Quiet and discreet, with no lobby or front desk, the Abingdon feels more like your own pad than a temporary stopover.Minus The Abingdon has a strict check-in policy; you must arrive by your appointed time. There's a two-night minimum stay on weeknights, and a four-night minimum stay on weekends. Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in all rooms. (There's no public lounge.)Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 21 Eighth Ave., 212/243-5384, abingdonguesthouse.com, doubles from $189.Photos 1 of 1 THE CHELSEA LODGE'Hood Chelsea is a midtown, semi-residential district best known for its galleries that showcase contemporary visual art.First Impression This picturesque, 22-room town house charms with its quirky decor, including large wooden geese mounted to lobby walls.The Rooms The immaculate rooms feel like country-chic escapes because of their rustic furniture and polished wood floors.Plus Large windows, high ceilings, and soothing colors open up the small rooms.Minus While there is a shower and a sink in every room, toilets are shared.Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in guest rooms and public spaces.Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 318 W. 20th St., 800/373-1116, chelsealodge.com, doubles from $129. THE COSMOPOLITAN HOTEL'Hood Tribeca, the Triangle Below Canal Street, is an area defined by residential lofts. It lures fewer tourists than nearby, better-known SoHo.First Impression This hotel works well for travelers who care more about their accommodations' address than the ambience. The hotel feels generic and suburban, despite its name.The Rooms The 125 small rooms have basic furnishings and just enough space to be comfortable without feeling puny.Plus The rooms' high ceiling fans add a homey touch to otherwise ordinary digs.Minus Chambers Street can be noisy. Ask for a room in the back of the hotel.Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in guest rooms and public spaces.Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 95 W. Broadway, 888/895-9400, cosmohotel.com, doubles from $190.Photos 1 of 3 HOTEL 17'Hood Gramercy, whose leafy and quiet streets are bounded by 14th Street, Third Avenue, 23rd Street, and Park Avenue South.First Impression It's not hard to see why Woody Allen filmed Manhattan Murder Mystery here, given the glamour of the hotel's old-fashioned, wood-paneled lobby and its narrow, winding corridors.The Rooms The decor varies, but most of the 122 rooms maintain a stately, old-world feel, thanks to the muted color palette, dark wood trim, and mahogany beds and armoires.Plus The staff is exceptionally friendly and happy to volunteer travel info, such as where to find the best local restaurant for a late-night bite.Minus Not all rooms have private bathrooms. Be sure to specify your preference when booking.Free Wi-Fi? No.Credit Cards Accepted MC, Visa.Details 225 E. 17th St., 212/475-2845, hotel17ny.com, doubles from about $120.Photos 1 of 2 THE LARCHMONT HOTEL'Hood Greenwich Village, but five blocks away from Union Square, a busy shopping district that's home to artisans, street performers, and the Greenmarket, a famous farmer's market.First Impression The Larchmont strives to be a classy throwback, offering a lobby with dark furniture and windowed counters. But it can look a little rough during check-in and checkout times, when the lobby is sometimes crammed with luggage.The Rooms No-frills rooms are outfitted with basic bedspreads, light pink walls, and rattan furniture that carries a faint whiff of the Caribbean. Rooms have sinks, but bathrooms are shared. One exception: There is a family room that sleeps a family of four and that has a private bathroom.Plus The Larchmont feels safe and secure. New guests have to be buzzed into the lobby; once they've checked in, lodgers receive their own set of keys and can enter through a separate hall.Minus The modest rooms and shared bathrooms are reminiscent of dormitories.Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in the lobby, café, and some of the rooms.Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 27 W. 11th St., 212/989-9333, larchmonthotel.com, doubles from $119. THE POD HOTEL'Hood This part of Midtown is brimming with restaurants and bars and is not far from Bloomingdale's, Central Park, and the Museum of Modern Art.First Impression The spacious lobby establishes the Pod's rep as a haven for the young and hip, with its funky murals, asymmetrical couches, and retro light fixtures.The Rooms Colorful, mod-print linens brighten up the 360 sleek rooms. The tiny work spaces, brushed-metal sinks, and minuscule bathrooms (in most rooms) are marvels of efficiency.Plus The common areas make the place—travelers can relax on the hotel's chic, outdoor patio and take in the bird's-eye view from the roof deck.Minus The hotel has its name for a reason—the rooms are tiny. Note: Single and bunk-bed rooms have shared bathrooms.Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in guest rooms and public spaces.Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 230 E. 51st St., 800/742-5945, thepodhotel.com, singles with shared baths from $99.Photos 1 of 3 SECOND HOME ON SECOND AVENUE'Hood The East Village, a gritty zone that's home to many lively bars, cheap eats, and NYU students.First Impression Peaceful and private, with no lobby or front desk, Second Home feels like its name. A skylight spills natural light into the airy duplex with wood floors. (The owner hates carpet.)The Rooms New York properties are notorious for their small spaces, and that's why Second Home's five large rooms—and high ceilings—are such a refreshing surprise. Plus, no two rooms are the same; each has distinct flavor, such as Peruvian or Caribbean.Plus Soundproof windows block out noise from busy Second Avenue outside.Minus Two of the rooms share a bathroom. And there's only a tiny sign outside the guesthouse. Look for the Body Evolution studio, which shares the building. Enter through the red door. Also, there is a two-night minimum stay on weeknights, and a three-night minimum stay on weekends.Free Wi-Fi? Yes, in guest rooms.Credit Cards Accepted AmEx, MC, Visa.Details 221 Second Ave., 212/677-3161, secondhomesecondavenue.com, doubles from $160, includes taxes, coffee, and tea.Photos 1 of 3

5 Bargain Hotels in New York City

The Pod Hotel The dated Pickwick Arms Hotel in midtown east Manhattan has been reinvented as the sleek Pod Hotel. Rates for a single with a shared bath start at $89 a night. Queen rooms with private baths start at $159. All have LCD TVs, iPod docking stations, and free Wi-Fi. Abingdon Guest House Located in the West Village on 13 Eighth Ave., this property offers doubles from $169. Comprised of two homey 1850s town houses, this colorfully painted spot has either private or en suite bathrooms, and many rooms have nonworking fireplaces. Light sleepers should avoid rooms facing Eighth Ave. Check-in is at Brewbar Cafe, the coffeehouse downstairs. Country Inn in the City On the Upper West Side (west of Central Park), this English-inspired inn might transport you to the British Cotswolds. Country antiques, four-poster beds, and hunting-lodge accents sing with Old World charm. Downsides are no credit cards and its three-day minimum stay. Reservations only. Doubles from $160. The Larchmont This 57-room property is tucked away on a quiet side street of charming, historic Greenwich Village. Stepping inside this lovely 1910 brownstone town house, you feel more like you're visiting a private residence than a hotel. (In fact, upon check-in, guests receive front-door keys and enter through a separate foyer.) The lobby is cheerfully decorated with a few oversize pieces including a large boar statue, wooden armoire, and brown leather couch. Rooms have rattan furniture, dark floral bedspreads, ceiling fans, and books to add a homey touch. All have shared baths. Rates: $90-$109 weeknights, typically $100/$125 weekends, continental breakfast included. Second Home on Second Avenue Don't be put off by the shabby facade of this 1900s town house—fun, even tastefully, appointed accommodations with soundproof windows lie inside. Choose from themed rooms—tribal, modern, Peruvian, etc. Doubles from about $100.

Trip Coach: September 18, 2007

Charlie Suisman: Hi. Charlie Suisman here -- it's a beautiful fall weather day in the Big Apple -- and I'm glad to be chatting with you. Let's get rolling.... _______________________ Lansing, Michigan: We are coming to New York for a weekend in December to see the Radio City Christmas Show (Rockettes) and spend time enjoying the sights and sounds of NYC at Christmas. We are looking for a good Asian restaurant that is not overly expensive and located in the midtown area. Any suggestions? Any other "December" things we should consider doing while we are there? (12/14-16) Charlie Suisman: There are so many things to do at holiday time, it's hard to select just a few -- there are annual holiday markets at Grand Central and Bryant Park, Paul Winter's annual (number 28, I think) Winter Solstice Celebration at Cathedral of St. John the Divine, is great. There are many Messiah performances -- of all kinds. There's a tradition at the 21 Club of the Salvation Army doing these boisterous singalongs at lunchtime -- there's nothing like those anywhere. There's Tuba Christmas at Rockefeller Center (Rock Center is the city's unofficial Christmas center, with its mega-tree and ice-skating rink). As for an Asian restaurant midtown, since you didn't specify any further, I'd pick two, one expensive, one not. At the Time Warner Center at Columbus Circle, Bar Masa is the small sibling to the faintingly expensive (but genuinely transcendent) Masa. If you like sushi, it's fantastic (less expensive than Masa proper, Bar Masa is still quite expensive). The bar is walk-in only. Much less expensive is the Chinese restaurant Grand Sichuan. There are several locations; the one in midtown is at 1049 Second Ave between 55th/56th -- delicious. _______________________ Peotone, Ill.: My husband and I are visiting New York for the first time. We are flying in on 9-27 and leave on a cruise on 9-29. Since we have only 2 nights in New York and we are staying at the Sheraton Towers, what would you suggest we see and do to make the most of our short time in The Big Apple? Thanks for your suggestions. Charlie Suisman: The first thing I'd do is go up to one of the observation decks, either the Empire State Building or the one at Rockefeller Center. I'd go with the latter because it's likely to be less crowded. Get an overview of the city, to see how it's laid out. The best thing to do in New York is walk -- it's the best way to get a feel for the city. I'd get out of midtown, too -- go to the Flatiron district, Greenwich Village -- that's where a lot of the action is these days. But since you're here for a very short time, you'll probably want to check out a few of the must-sees. For museums, choose from the Metropolitan Museum and the Museum of Modern Art (I feel terrible leaving out so many other amazing museums!). If the weather's nice, I'd go down to Battery Park and see the Statue of Liberty from afar (rather than spending the time getting there and back). See a Broadway show. Central Park has never looked better and an afternoon stroll there would be memorable -- you could also hire a horse and carriage from the area of 5th Avenue and 59th to give you a tour of the park. Great shopping is always there for you -- Saks, Bloomingdales, and every small shop you can imagine. Or just wander. That sense of discovery can be the most fun of all. _______________________ Woodbury, CT: Favorite Chinese restaurant in Manhattan? Bill Charlie Suisman: That's actually a tough one for me. I love Chinese food -- and while it's possible to get good Chinese food in NYC, it's a lot harder than you'd think. I like the Grand Sichuan outposts, tea-smoked duck at Wu Liang Ye (I usually go to the one by Rockefeller Center), and a new one in Chinatown called Amazing 66, at 66 Mott. _______________________ Little Rock, AR: I'd love to see one of the shows at the old style lounges like Cafe Carlyle or Feinstein's (especially Elaine Stritch this January.) However, I'm just out of college, and the shows are so exspensive. Do these places offer any other less costly options, such as standing room, or sitting at the bar? Charlie Suisman: It's a good question and I wish I had a good option -- but the cabaret heavy-hitters have become so expensive that you can't just stop in as you could do once upon a time. The Carlyle is charging $125 for Elaine Stritch, dinner required. Ouch. I do have an alternative for you, though. On Monday nights at Birdland, when most Broadway performers are off, there's something called Jim Caruso's Cast Party. All kinds of Broadway performers turn up to sing -- lots of fun and affordable. _______________________ Daytona Beach, FL: What is the least expensive way for one person to travel from La Guardia airport into Manhattan, specifically the Soho area? Charlie Suisman: This page has your options, but the short answer is to take a bus from the terminal that will connect to (free transfer) to the subway. Cost: $2. _______________________ Pinetop, Ariz.: Can the 'Adventure Pass' be used for the Ferry system also? Charlie Suisman: If you're with us, can you let me know which Pass that is (who issues it?) -- I'll be glad to check it out and try to give you answer. _______________________ cumming, ga: My daughters and I would like to visit NYC and would like to know what time of year to come to get the best hotel prices. Also is there a good time during the week where the prices are lower? Thank you. Charlie Suisman: You can generally find the lowest rates in January, February, and March. Some hotels will offer weekend packages, which can bring the rate down further. And don't just assume that a rate you see on the website is the lowest price you can get. Call the hotel and chat with someone from reservations. A little luck may be involved, but you may be surprised to get a lower rate -- with some polite persistence -- if the hotel isn't that busy. _______________________ Lubbock, Texas: I'm taking a trip to NYC with one of my best girlfriends the first week of December. We are both first timers. Do you have any tips or secrets for us? Thanks, April Charlie Suisman: That's a great time to visit. The city is bustling with events and shoppers and there's so much going on everywhere. The best tip is to bring comfortable shoes. There's no better way to experience NY than by walking, even if you don't know exactly where you're going. I'd hit up some of the big things -- a museum or two, the tree at Rockefeller Center, the tour of Radio City Music Hall is fun, a couple of department stores (Saks, Macys), the U.N. if that interests you, and then explore the neighborhoods of the West and East Village, Soho, and the area around Union Square. _______________________ Washington, DC: Where are the cheapest hotels to stay in New York City? Charlie Suisman: Many of New York's hotels have just gone nuts with their pricing. It's ridiculous. But you don't have to spend a fortune -- however, it's still going to be more expensive than most other American cities to sleep. Here are a few picks of places, depending on the time of year that should have rooms between $100 to $250.The Pod Hotel (yes, that's the right web address -- it used to be the Pickwick)Rooms to LetSecond Home on Second Ave Country Inn the CityMayfair New YorkBroadway InnAbingdon Guest HouseThe Larchmont _______________________ New Hyde Park. NY.: When is restaurant week in NYC? Picks on where to go? Charlie Suisman: I haven't seen the dates announced yet for the next restaurant week (the most recent was in July), but it usually takes place in late January or early February. So I don't really have any picks that far out! _______________________ Dallas, TX: We are planning on flying into LaGuardia early December to visit family in NJ. We usually fly into Newark but airfare prices into LaGuardia are really low right now. We need to know the easiest (and cheapest) way to get to NJ. We like to save our $ for fun trips not family trips. We're thinking maybe LaGuardia to Port Authority and then taking the train to NJ. Thanks, LouAnn Charlie Suisman: That's the way to do it -- though the train is actually from Penn Station. It's the bus you'd get at Port Authority, but that's a good option, too. _______________________ San Diego, CA: My wife and I would like to do some 4-6 day trips to New York. This summer we stayed right off Times Square which can get expensive. We've thought of staying out by JFK and getting a transit pass. Is this a good idea? Are there other areas of NYC that would have interesting things close by and accommodations that wouldn't break the bank? Charlie Suisman: That's a pretty long haul and the airport lodging isn't that much cheaper than you can find, with a little effort, right in Manhattan. I've listed a few options in reply to another question for reasonable (which means reasonable by NY standards, not by real-world standards....) hotels. Another option is to stay at a bed and breakfast -- believe it or not they exist in NY and there are some terrific ones. Sites like bedandbreakfast.com/manhattan-new-york.html have good listings. _______________________ Clearwater, Florida: Dear Charlie Suisman, My question is the same one I ask of all New Yorkers: What's your own personal favorite restaurant in The Village, please? Thanks! Charlie Suisman: Just one? If I must, I'd have to say Lupa an Italian restaurant, run by a young, hard-working restaurateur. I've never had a bad meal there or a bad time -- it's crowded, and bustling, and can be noisy, but I'm always happy to go back. _______________________ Sanford FL: We are 2 adults visiting October 12-17, and finding the hotel prices are ridiculous. A room I paid $189 for, six months ago, is now $400. I'm "lucky" in that I booked it for "only" $265 before prices shot through the roof. MY QUESTION - are there any good and reputable "home / apartment sharing" services, where someone like us, who can provide EXCELLENT personal references, can find Manhattanites that may be away for extended periods of time, and are willing to rent their apartment for a reasonable price? There are some places on Craigslist that offer this service, but there are an equal amount of associated horror stories. Thanks in advance, and love your MUG newsletter. F in Fla. Charlie Suisman: Thanks! I don't know of any reliable local services. Even though you have to pay a fee to become a member, people have had generally very positive things to say about Home Exchange. _______________________ Huntington Woods MI: We (my husband and I) will be in NYC October 6-7. I'm familiar with TKTS, but I know some shows have 'auctions' just before show time. Is there a way to find out which ones do this? Is there some other way to try to catch a deal on a show? What is the 'buzz' on the best new show? Thanks Ilana Charlie Suisman: TKTS is still your best bet overall, but check out Broadway Box that provides discount coupon codes for some shows. As for the new season, there's a lot of buzz around Mel Brook's Young Frankenstein, The Farnsworth Invention by Aaron Sorkin about the invention of television, and Cyrano de Bergerac with Kevin Kline. _______________________ Naperville, Illinois: My son recently relocated to Manhattan. In researching hotels for our upcoming visit , I came across several hotel consolidators , whose raates were very much lower than the typical Manhattan hotel prices. My question, are these legitimate companies? Thanks! Charlie Suisman: There's nothing inherently fishy about these companies -- they buy in bulk and then sell at a discount. But you still want to go with a reputable firm. One I like is Quikbook.com. _______________________ Modesto, Ca: We will be viiting New York for 2 nights in Nov. as a stopover on to Europe. We have been several times and have done all the tourist stuff. Can you suggest something new to do and maybe a cool neighborhood we can stay in instead of the usual Time Square? Thanks Charlie Suisman: Definitely! Whenever my friends and family come to visit, I suggest they stay anywhere but Times Square and midtown. Nothing wrong with it, but you'll get a visitor's view of the city, rather than an insider's. And so many great chefs, and shops, and nightlife is now below 34th Street. So, I'd suggest staying in the West or East Village. If you want to get a *really* different angle on the city, try the Lower East Side. It's far from bucolic, but there's so much history there, not to mention a definite hipster scene. The Hotel on Rivington caters to the neighborhood's new-found vibe. _______________________ Grand Rapids, MI: We're going to NYC next week; have been there several times and would like to explore Brooklyn. Ideas? Also, now that the Second Ave. Deli has closed (!), any other really authentic kosher delis that aren't Katz or Carnegie? Jane Charlie Suisman: The good news is that Second Avenue Deli has plans to re-open, though not on Second Avenue. It was by far my favorite. You're right to mention Katz's and Carnegie. There aren't that many any more, alas. But there's Ben's to add to your list until 2nd Ave comes back to us. _______________________ Paw Paw, Mich.: A group of 40+ female teachers travel to NYC every November (usually the second weekend) for a three day weekend. We have seen the usual tourist attractions plus numerous plays. What would you say are the best "under-advertised" NYC attractions that we should put on our list for this year or even coming years? Charlie Suisman: Somehow visitors miss the Frick Collection and it's an amazing small museum. The Brooklyn Botanic Garden sounds like it's hard to get to, but it's not --- and well worth the subway ride. The Morgan Library had been closed for a renovation but it reopened last year and it's now even more interesting than before. If you've never walked along the string of connecting parks along the Hudson, beginning at the southern tip of the island and extending northward -- it's a fantastic walk. If you like classical music, you can't do better than the chamber concerts of Bargemusic, held indoors on an old barge in Brooklyn. World-class musicians and views of Manhattan. Speaking of Brooklyn, if you haven't been to the Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM) -- they have amazing theater, dance, opera -- all kind of great events. If you want a place that even most New Yorkers don't know, the Fisher Landau Center in Long Island City was formerly a private collection of art, now open to the public, in what was an old parachute manufacturing facility! And one more about art: the galleries that used to make up Soho are now in west Chelsea -- you can see many galleries in one swoop because they're grouped within a few blocks. _______________________ Bethesda, Md.: I'm traveling to Manhattan for business early next month and for the first time will fly rather than taking the train from D.C. Which airport is most accessible to downtown--I'll be staying near Rockefeller Center--and how much time should I allot for travel to and from the airport? Thanks! Charlie Suisman: LaGuardia is the closest of the three airports. If you're not arriving at rush hour, the ride can be as little as 25 minutes to midtown. But don't count on it. You should figure 45 minutes -- maybe you'll get lucky! _______________________ Santa Barbara, Calif.: What is considered appropriate "city clothing" for day and night? Charlie Suisman: That depends so much on what you're going to be doing, time of year etc. But it may help to know that New York has become much less formal over the past 10-15 years. Few restaurants require a coat and tie for men any more. 'Upscale casual' is how restaurants sometimes describe the code of how they think you should dress. But if I had to describe a general rule -- go for stylish, understated clothing - basic black always works. The nice thing about the city is, though, you'll fit in if you're wearing old jeans and sneakers, or if you're in designer clothing. _______________________ Salem, Ore.: My husband and I will be in New York Oct. 13-16. We are interested in going to a comedy club. Any recommendations? Also, we're staying in a hotel on the upper west side (74th and Broadway). Any recommendations for dinner? Thank you! Charlie Suisman: The biggest names tend to go to Caroline's but you can also try the Comedy Cellar and one right near where you'll be staying, StandUp NY. As for dinner, one of the neighborhood's classics is Cafe Luxembourg. A favorite of mine (but fair warning: noisy, tight quarters, cash only) is called Celeste on Amsterdam Ave. -- delicious Italian food at very modest prices. _______________________ Las Vegas, Nev.: I will arrive at JFK in the early afternoon after an international flight from Istanbul,and will need to spend the night around the vicinity of the airport for an early morning flight to Las Vegas. Any suggestions for economic accommodations? Charlie Suisman: There is a limited choice but The Ramada Plaza should fit the bill. And it's the only hotel actually on JFK property. _______________________ Orinda, CA: Best activities for a 14 year old music (rock and roll, blues) loving boy, and a nature and animal loving 11 year old girl. Both day and evening activity suggestions would be appreciated! Charlie Suisman: For the nature loving girl, the Museum of Natural History is a must -- I just took my niece and nephew there and it was a big hit -- one of the highlights of their trip to New York. There's the Bronx Zoo, too, an excellent way to spend an afternoon. As for the boy, he's too young for most of the city's music venues I think. But I would check Radio City Music Hall to see who will be performing there when you're in town. _______________________ Exeter, Calif.: Recommended moderately priced restaurants on the Upper West Side? Will be in NYC 10/1-10/5/07. Charlie Suisman: Sure. I mentioned Celeste and Cafe Luxembourg elsewhere, I also like Indian Oven, Land (Thai food), and Onera (Greek). _______________________ Lake Mary, Fla.: I have visited NYC several times and have loved it! We have always taken bus tours of the city. As a result, we have seen all the normal things (Statue of LIberty, Times Square, etc.) I would like to know if there are personal guides that can be hired to show us NYC through the eyes of a "native". I would like to contact them ahead of time so they could recommend the best place to stay so we would be centrally located to the things we would be seeing. Thank you, Anne Charlie Suisman: There are a lot of options. Myra Alperson does food walking tours, there are companies like Big Onion for history and there are individuals like Justin Ferrate who will do custom tours depending on your interest. _______________________ Upland, CA: We are going to New York/Manhattan the day after Christmas thru the 5 on January. we are 6 adults & 1 toddler - cannot find any info regarding carseats, taxi regulations for my grandson! None of us have been there before and cannot find anything on it. We are staying at the Shelburne/Murray Hill on Lexington. Thank you for your help! Charlie Suisman: Drivers of yellow medallion taxicabs and for-hire vehicles and their passengers, are exempt from laws regarding car seats and seatbelts. Keep in mind, the TLC encourages everyone in the vehicle to buckle their seatbelts while riding in a cab. There are no Taxi and Limousine Commission rules regarding this, as it is a State exemption. Passengers with children are encouraged to bring their own car seats, which the drivers must allow passengers to install. Children under the age of seven are permitted to sit on an adult's lap. _______________________ San Francisco, CA: Tentatively planning on going to New York City over Christmas with husband and 13 year old daughter. What would you suggest we do on Christmas Day when most stores, museums, and other attractions will be closed? Charlie Suisman: It's true that New York is at its quietest on Christmas Day. Weather permitting, I would go to Central Park -- it's a lovely, family-oriented feeling on that day in the park. Big Onion Tours does their annual Jewish Lower East Side Tour on Christmas Day. Check the Broadway performance schedule that week. Some shows may be performing. Check Radio City and the Rockettes schedule. And a fair number of restaurants will be open Christmas night. _______________________ Valencia, CA: Dear Mr. Suisman, my husband and I are planning a quick two to three day trip to New York to see Spring Awakening at the end of September (yes, my idea). What is the best airport to fly into when staying in Manhattan? I have been told it is sometimes quicker/easier to fly into one farther afield than battle the traffic around JFK. And, bonus question, what are the best seats in the Eugene O'Neill in your opinion? Many thanks, C. Cameron Charlie Suisman: Bonus question first: if I could sit exactly anywhere, I'd pick row E on the center aisle, or first row center mezz. About flying into the airports -- the truth is, it's never fun getting into Manhattan from any of the airports. But, even with horrendous traffic, it's never taken me more than 70 minutes to get in from JFK, and that's been the worst-case. The distance from La Guardia is shorter, but there are no non-stops to/from California. _______________________ Lawrence, Kans.: We are going to be in NYC 12/25-12/30. Right now we are booked at the Radio City Apartments, but I am thinking it would really be more fun to find something in Soho, Tribeca, etc. Since it will be winter, we'd like to be somewhere where it is easy to walk to a cafe, shopping, etc. for those times we're just hanging out. Any suggestions? Thanks! --Karen Charlie Suisman: Soho and Tribeca don't have a lot of hotel options -- I think you're better off in the Village where you'll never be more than a few feet (!) from cafes, shopping, the subway etc. And from the Village, it's an easy walk to Soho and Tribeca. _______________________ Charlie Suisman: I've really enjoyed this -- thanks for letting me talk about New York -- my favorite subject. Come visit -- I know you'll have a great time no matter what you do. For more info on New York, you can also check out my website, Manhattan User's Guide -- thanks for the great questions! Charlie Suisman