Five Places to Elope

By Lisa Tabb & Sam Silverstein
June 4, 2005
Save thousands of dollars by merging your wedding with your honeymoon

The cost - and aggravation - of planning a wedding is enough to send some couples off the deep end. Or on the road. Eloping, while not for everyone, has several advantages over full-blown weddings. First among them is savings. The average U.S. couple spends $19,104 on their "conventional" wedding, according to a Bride's magazine survey published in 2000. We eloped. In fact, we tied the knot ten times while researching our book Beyond Vegas: 25 Exotic Wedding and Elopement Destinations Around the World. We've concluded that a large number of destinations are not only wedding-and-elopement-friendly (few bureaucratic hurdles) but also tasteful, exotic, and inexpensive.

Here are five of our favorites, ranging from cheapest to most expensive, with contact information and some legal details to get you started down the same road. The estimated cost of each elopement (the basic expense of getting there, paying for a license and officiant, and lodging) is less than $3,000 for two - cheaper than the catering bill for a conventional wedding reception. All prices, to repeat, include round-trip air for two people, the cost of the ceremony, and lodging for a short honeymoon.

Nevada ($1,045 per couple for five nights, including airfare)

The mountains surrounding Lake Tahoe (airport: Reno, NV) are prime eloping terrain. Their eastern edge spills from California into Nevada, where marriage laws are famously elopement-friendly. A driver's license and $50 are all that's required to get a license at the Washoe County Clerk's Office (775/328-3260). Once you have that, there is no waiting period. Though you're on your own in finding a minister to perform the ceremony - the Marriage License Office is zero help - local roads are lined with chapels charging as little as $50.

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One option is to range afield and pay more to have your ceremony performed outdoors. In sharp contrast to the kitschy wedding chapels that populate Las Vegas, the Sierras are one of Mother Nature's greatest cathedrals. We chose to get married outdoors by Jay Pearson, a local nondenominational minister whose anti-establishment views (broadcast on TV) place him distinctly outside the local religious community. Our wedding took place halfway up the mountain at Diamond Peak Ski Resort on a sunny winter day following a major dumping of snow. After slipping on each other's rings, we donned ski gloves and spent an afternoon on the slopes. Pastor Pearson's fee (donation) for weddings in the field varies by location; we paid $200 to lure him up the mountain. Ceremonies performed in his Wedding Well Ministries' Office (888/871-3161, www.bchapel.com) are $50-the standard fee for the area.

Where to Stay

Rooms with queen- and king-size beds (including breakfast for two) are $69 to $99 (weekends are more crowded and expensive) year-round at the Tahoe Biltmore Lodge and Casino (800/245-8667, www.tahoebiltmore.com), its prices kept down by big casino action. That's in Crystal Bay, Nevada, near several interesting places for your ceremony. Or you might upgrade to the Inn at Incline (775/831-1052, www.innatincline.com), in Incline Village, Nevada, alongside the Incline Village golf course, where amenities include an indoor pool, spa, sauna, and cozy lounge with fireplace. Queen rooms are $89 in low season (October-April), $119 May-September, and an extra $10 gets you a deluxe king.

Airfare

Though periodic sales to Reno/Lake Tahoe break out throughout the year, and round-trip fares from some nearby departure cities (such as Los Angeles) are well under $200, you'll usually pay $300 to $350 from U.S. cities that are at least three hours away. We calculated our total elopement cost of $1,045 by assuming two airfares of $300 apiece, $50 for a license, $50 for the ceremony, and five nights at $69 a room.

British Virgin Islands ($2,384 per couple for six nights, including airfare)

Here is heavenly hammock country, a sun-and-humidity-saturated network of volcanic islands with a magical ability to loosen joints and empty cluttered minds. It's wonderfully accessible to the U.S. The BVI comprise 60 islands (18 are inhabited) in the heart of the Caribbean, yet are only 60 miles east of Puerto Rico; it's possible to eat breakfast at your home, lunch in Miami, and toast your arrival in the BVI that night over champagne. What makes it so suitable for elopement is the simplicity of its marital laws. Getting married in the BVI requires only a visit to the post office in Road Town, Tortola, to purchase appropriate stamps (the B stands for "British," remember), a trip to the nearby Attorney General's office for passport verification, and an appointment with the registrar (284/494-3701), who will do the deed in no less than three working days thence. Total paperwork cost: $145, and eminently doable by yourself.

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For an additional $65 plus the cost of fuel/ferry service, the registrar will venture beyond his or her office to perform your ceremony. The most popular choice, of course, is a beach. Ours was performed at sunset, with shoes off - a cliche rooted in some seriously good karma. The BVI abound with wedding planners who can help select the perfect spot. Heather Anderson at BVI Wedding Planners (284/494-5306, www.bviweddings.com) is among the friendliest of the lot. Her basic fee ($500) includes the stamps and registrar, but not costs for options such as a professional photographer, flowers, and cake.

Where to Stay

The delightfully intimate, nine-room Tamarind Club (284/495-2477, www.tamarindclub.com) in Tortola's Josiah's Bay rents garden/poolside rooms for $80 to $100 a night depending on the season, and so-called "honeymoon suites" for $110 to $150, including continental breakfast. Amenities include a locally popular restaurant, a lounge, and a pool with swim-up bar. Alternatively, the pricier Village Cay Resort Marina/Hotel (284/494-2771, www.villagecay.com) stands adjacent to a bustling marina and offers license-seekers easy access to the government building in Road Town as well as a poolside bar and waterside restaurant. Standard rooms are $125 to $165, waterfront rooms $150 to $190, depending on the season.

Airfare

All year, round-trip flights to Tortola from New York City (via San Juan) run $642 to $672, or around $552 from Miami. Off-season travel (June through November) offers fewer crowds and reduced rates but a greater risk of wayward hurricanes. We bought two tickets from New York for $1,284, a room for six nights at the Tamarind Club for $600, and the services of BVI Wedding Planners for $500. Total: $2,384.

BALI ($2,411 per couple for nine nights, including airfare)

What this Indonesian island lacks in convenience - allow for two days' air travel to and from the U.S., not to mention relatively complicated wedding laws - it more than makes up for with a deeply romantic vibe. The main source of Bali's allure isn't its fine beaches or balmy equatorial weather: It's the Balinese people, who practice their particular style of Hindu devotion in a daylong pageant of prayer. Even if you choose to play your wedding day straight - sans the expense of hiring a gamelan orchestra or wearing traditional sarongs - your time on the island will be rich in ambient pageantry. The documentation required for a wedding in Indonesia is complicated, and eloping in Bali requires the help of a coordinator. Bali Weddings International (011-62-361/287-516, www.baliweddingsinternational.com) has the island well covered; its basic $600 handling fee includes all documentation, the services of a religious representative, and also the time of a Government Registry Office observer (required by law).

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Eloping in Bali is an excellent way to experience the Balinese genius for decoration in its full glory. Our wedding spot, on a patch of grass overlooking Jimbaran Bay, was a riot of palm fronds, dangling marigolds, and yellow-and-blue umbrellas. BWI's fee for decorations starts at $25, and it charges an additional $600 for those free-spending couples who decide to wear traditional costumes and have their union blessed by a Balinese Hindu priest after the legal proceedings.

Where to Stay

We liked the pool-equipped Casa Luna Honeymoon Guesthouse (011-62-361/973-283) for its spectacular rates (either $17, $24, $34, or $38 per room per night, depending on the category and view) and remarkable location within walking distance of downtown Ubud, the cultural and shopping heart of the island. Breakfast is included, with unforgettable freshly made pastries from an adjacent bakery. Also recommended is the higher-category Alam Sari Hotel (011-62-361/240-308, www.alamsari.com), perched on a hilltop about four miles north of Ubud's commercial center. Clear days offer excellent views of sacred Mount Agung. If you book on the Internet, year-round rates for a double room at Alam Sari will be $55 (and $10 more for a suite). And for a Balinese-level "splurge" (costing amazingly little for quality as high as this), consider the Sari Segara Hotel (011-62-361/703-647, www.sarisegara. com), where Internet rates run $92 to $115 per room, $104 to $138 per villa with bedroom and living room.

Airfares

Since an air-and-land package from Los Angeles sells for as low as $829 from reliable Escapes Unlimited (800/243-7227, www.escapesltd.com), there's no need to purchase a ticket costing over $1,000; buy the $829 air-and-hotel package and throw away the hotel (in favor of the ones we've recommended). Moreover, Escapes Unlimited's "add ons" from the East Coast ($30 from New York) are nominal. Multiplying $829 by two people, and adding a $17 room with breakfast at Casa Luna for nine nights ($153) and the $600 fee of Bali Weddings International, brings you an elopement to remember forever, at a total approximate cost of $2,411. That's for both of you-coming to just $1,205.50 per person.

Scotland ($2,433 per couple for five nights, including airfare)

Not only does it rain a lot in Scotland, it does so with gusto. Thankfully, "romantic" is a flexible adjective that certainly includes stormy days spent indoors beside a fire, sipping whisky and leafing through dusty volumes of vivid poetry. And when the weather does break, there's tandem horseback riding, golf, and other outdoor pursuits to restore your appetite before the next famously heavy meal. Eloping in Scotland is relatively simple, especially when compared with its more tradition-bound European neighbors. For centuries, all that formalized a marriage between two people was that they declare their bond publicly: no vows, rings, or clergy required. To this day, eloping in Scotland remains an informal affair. For civil ceremonies at a registration office, the fee is about $113. The General Register Office in Edinburgh will help locate registrars throughout Scotland. Though there's no residency requirement, the fee (and documents such as marriage notice forms and birth certificates) must be submitted to the registrar at least 15 days prior to your ceremony. Call 011-44-131/314-4447 or visit www.gro-scotland.gov.uk. Religious ceremonies are about a third the cost of civil ceremonies until you count the minister's fee and tip. The religious route is required if you wish to make your vows outside the registrar's office. Our ceremony at Stonefield Castle Hotel on the shores of Loch Fyne, southwest of Glasgow, was officiated by Reverend Montgomery, an octogenarian retiree from the nearby town of Tayvallich.

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You can - but aren't obliged to - purchase several enhancements to your wedding ceremony and reception at Stonefield Castle Hotel, built in 1837 and the site of hundreds of weddings both lavish and intimate. Its staff will help you with logistics ranging from floral arrangements to a costly but festive Ceilidh (pronounced "kay-lee") band ($426), complete with dance lessons. And it's hard to beat haggis (about $38 per person) for dinner, marched into the dining room to the thrilling strains of a Scottish bagpiper (about $125); some marching musicians hereabouts have a flair for the dramatic and will recite several stanzas of Robert Burns before drawing daggers from their socks to administer the ceremonial first cut to the haggis.

Where to Stay

At Stonefield Castle Hotel (011-44-188/082-0836, www.stonefieldcastle.co.uk), garden-view rooms are $150 to $182 in winter (November through March), $208 to $241 during promotional periods from April through October, otherwise $241 to $294 (always including breakfast and dinner). In scheduling your elopement, attempt to get these promotional rates in spring or fall, and avoid the peak season (July, August) highs. Compare the prices you're quoted to an alternative choice, the Gretna Hall Hotel (011-44-146/133-8257, www.british-trust-hotels.com/gretna) in the picturesque village of Gretna Green, just across the border from England - it's been a popular "runaway wedding" stop for centuries. Here a bridal suite with full Scottish breakfast for two is $113 in winter, $143 the rest of the year.

Airfares

We don't recommend a winter stay in Scotland, nor one in peak summer season, and you should therefore look for shoulder-season rates of about $640 round-trip from New York (add approximately $100 from Chicago or Los Angeles), although airfare discounters like www.cheaptickets.com and www.statravel.com can sometimes reduce that tab by upwards of $100. The total cost of our Scottish elopement was based on airfare of $640 times two people, plus a $208 room times five nights, plus civil ceremonies at a registration office for $113, for a total of $2,433.

The Greek Islands ($2,704 per couple for seven nights, including airfare)

The Cyclades-so named because of the way in which they encircle the island of Delos, once the capital of all of classical Greece - are some two dozen land masses rooted sturdily in the windswept Aegean. Bordering the colorless land, the blue seawater appears computer-enhanced, like a vivid product in an otherwise black-and-white advertisement.

The major hurdle to eloping in Greece is the waiting period, which varies from island to island - even from town to town on the same island. Santorini is the easiest island in the Cyclades on which to elope, by virtue of its accommodating and experienced City Hall staff. The deputy mayor himself officiated at our ceremony, on a balcony at our hotel, a mere four hours after our arrival on the island. Wedding logistics in Santorini are possible to arrange without the help of a planner. To obtain a license, couples must provide (fax is fine) copies of their birth certificates as well as a certificate of non-impediment to marriage from their local registrar. The cost of a wedding license is about $52, not including tip. All documents must be translated from English into Greek. Your local Greek consulate is the best place to have this done; if your documents are translated by someone else, they will need to be certified by the consulate anyway. Prices for the service vary; the consulate in San Francisco charged us $200. Contact Fira City Hall in Santorini at 011-30-2860/28-094. Several staffers there are conversant in both English and wedding matters.

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For a small extra charge - say, $50 - the deputy mayor will venture outside his drab office to perform your ceremony. Ours took place on the balcony of our room at Dana Villas, with a view of the Aegean several hundred feet below. All of Santorini is a dormant volcano, and the town of Fira perches spectacularly at the rim of the crater. For those who wish to concentrate on lying by the pool and nibbling local salty cheese, many hotels on Santorini offer help pulling together wedding logistics - for a fee. Dana Villas charges $310, including the cost of all paperwork other than the translation.

Where to Stay

Dana Villas (011-30-2860/22-566, www.danavillas.gr), a group of kitchenette-equipped studios and apartments perched on the rim of a cliff, is conveniently close to Fira City Hall. It offers a killer view of Santorini's famous harbor, but charges a high $146 to $186 for a studio, depending on the season, including full buffet breakfast for two. More of a value is the 23-room Panorama Hotel (011-30-2860/22-481), offering honeymooners a primo view of the caldera from private verandas, in rooms costing $82 to $120, depending on the season, including full buffet breakfast for two. Or consider the blissfully quiet (despite its easy walking distance to the heart of Fira) Aressana Hotel (011-30-2860/23-900, www.aressana.gr), whose 53 rooms run from $74 to $128 (and you'll pay that $128 only in the peak month of August).

Airfare

It's best not to schedule your elopement for July or August, when round-trip fares top $1,000 and Santorini is choked with tourists. Fares from the U.S. East Coast to Greece are as low as $505 in February and March, $852 in April, May, June, and September, although consolidators (discounters) often chop $100 or more off those shoulder-season levels. Add $110 from Chicago, $120 from Los Angeles. Figuring two fares of $852 (total: $1,704), seven nights' lodging at $100 a night ($700), license and translation fees ($250), and the ceremony ($50), the total approximate cost for a couple comes to (very roughly) $2,704.

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Surprising Senegal

Senegal was once the administrative center of French West Africa, and its oh-la-la French legacy is everywhere. Dakar, Senegal, is by far the most fashionable and sophisticated of the West African capitals (thanks to the French influence) with cafes, movie theaters, a happening nightlife, shopping, and museums. To underscore the point, you may even want to plan to visit during Destination Africa Fashion Week from Nov 15 to 21 where there will be fashion shows of local designers (contact 313/873-3889 or bysharrone.com for more info). But Dakar is still Africa through and through: Women walk with bundles atop their heads in the middle of town, and Muslim clerics in robes and with pray beads shuttle by the nightclubs. Tourists come for it all: The modern culture, the African arts, the baobob tree forests just south of Dakar, the friendly African villages, the long stretches of beaches, and the mangrove deltas that populate the southwestern part of the country (a heaven for bird watchers). Although you can go it alone, booking a tour package of Senegal through a company such as 2Afrika (877/200-5610, 2afrika.com) is your best bet -- especially if you don't speak French. Run by South Africans, 2Afrika has easy package trips for American travelers, including day trips to villages, beaches, the famous "Pink Lake" (a body of water with rose-colored waters), and other excursions. Moreover, they can arrange for you to have a guide/translator and private driver, which come very much in handy. Week-long trips with airfare from New York start at around $1,400 with hotels, guides, excursions, some meals, and local transportation -- by far your cheapest option to Senegal. Tourists use Dakar as a base, and cheap but modern hotels in the city center are not hard to fine. Try the four-star Hotel la Croix Sud (20 Avenue Albert Sarraut, +221/889-7878; lacroixdusud.net), a classy and chic hotel with renovated rooms with TV, private baths, and a sophisticated lounge in a 1951 building, in the center of Dakar near the main plaza of the city, Place D'Independence. Smart rooms start at a cool $108. A more simple option is the L'Oceanic Hotel (5 rue de Thann; +221/822-2044) near the main market in Dakar. It's popular with French tourists, has a cozy patio bar, and rooms may not have TV, but they make up for it with big bathrooms and brightly colored balconies. Doubles start at $42. Although most of the other good beaches are a couple hours' drive away on Le Petite Cote ("The Little Coast") to the south of Dakar, the city does have a couple of tourist-popular beaches at La Voile D'or -- about a $3 taxi from the center of town. There are thatched umbrellas, white sand, and clean water despite that fact that the port is within eyeshot. Day use of the beach costs you a buck, or stay the night here at the simple but comfy Monaco Plage Bel Air (+221/832-2260), a yellow cement building with rooms starting at $30. Goree Island is the famous UNESCO World Heritage site that was the horrible sending off point for slaves to the New World. It's now a somber reminder of this dark history, albeit with beautiful pastel buildings and cobblestone alleyways. One thing most tourists don't realize is that you can spend the night on Goree Island as well. Hotel du Chevalier de Boufflers (+221/822-5364) is located right off the main dock on the isle, and is a charming red pastel building with a handful of African-decorated rooms and a good restaurant overlooking the ocean serving Senegalese and French meals for under $10 (despite the plethora of tourists and lack of eateries on the island). Rates start at around $36 a night, and a continental breakfast is $3. A major tourist spot is the Village Artisanal in Soumbedioune -- a market overflowing with carvings, African toys, bright fabrics, and interesting knick knacks. It's a $2 taxi from the city center and everyone knows it well. After haggling your way through it, you're bound to be hungry: Check out the La Jete de Soumbedioune restaurant (+221/566-4535) that is adjoining the marketplace. They have live Senegalese music on the weekends, and the patio eatery is a great place to watch the fishermen bring in their catch on brightly painted boats in the bay. Grilled filets of beef and chicken go for less than $10, and a half liter of French wine starts at $3. You can't leave Senegal without experiencing its robust music scene, famous the world over. A great place to catch live music at night is Dakar's mellow Just 4 U (2.5 km on Avenue Cheikh Anta Diop, +221/824-3240) where you can hear the latest Senegalese jazz in a large courtyard atmosphere. The music is free for the price of a drink (around $5). For a taste of Dakar, go to the pleasant Casa de Creole (21 Blvd. Dijily Mbaye ea Pinet Leprade, +221/823-4081), not far from the Place de L'indepence. They serve international cuisine with a French slant. The interior has a balcony eating area, a waterfall, and stained glass. Meals like filet of sole go for about $8. If you do want to venture further afield away from Dakar, Les Paletuviers (+221/948-7776; paletuviers.com) is a resort located right alongside the friendly village of Toubacouta in the south central of the country, a few hours' drive from Dakar. It's run by a jovial Belgian couple. There's a pool, a bar, a restaurant, spacious rooms with air conditioning, and better yet, tours aplenty -- like a social tour of the village, boat tours of mangroves, bird watching tours, guided fishing, and more. Rooms start at under $100 a night, and tours start at less than $50 a day. Even better, two other hotels in the area are under the same management: Village Plage D'or, with round African cottages on a white sand beach, and L'ile des Paletuviers, a lodge with a pool, lounge, and restaurant. Zodiac boats can take you to either of these properties from Les Paletuviers, and prices are in the same ballpark. All three properties make you feel like you are a million miles away from any major tourist areas. Or if you simply want to have a bit of a beach holiday, check out the Savana Saly Hotel (+221/849-4242, savana.sn/index-ang.html) on Le Petite Cote (about two hours south of Dakar) with doubles starting at $100. The swanky resort has pools, a small beach, cultural shows and tours, and great dining. Another nice resort with a quiet beach near Le Petite Cote is Le Warang (BP 334 Mbour; +221/957-2010) where you can stay in African-style cottages with modern amenities and there's also a large pool and a restaurant with panoramic view serving Franco-Senegalese food. Doubles start at $24. No matter where you go in the fascinating country, you are bound to be greeted with welcoming waves, sweet people, grand vistas, and an intriguing view into the lives of modern Africans. It's a trip that may change your whole view of the continent itself.

State Parks Lodges

Sometimes you find travel's biggest bargains all but hidden right under your nose. I did when I belatedly discovered a few years ago that I could vacation cheaply in cozy cabins and lodges in several state parks not far from my home. Now I'm convinced they are America's best budget-priced rooms with a view. Since then, I've checked into park lodges in West Virginia, Kentucky, South Dakota, and Alabama, among others. But even I was surprised to learn that more than half the states-my unofficial count is 32-maintain similar accommodations for locals and visitors alike. I've always been a big fan of the country's famed national park lodges, such as Old Faithful Lodge at Yellowstone and Bright Angel Lodge at the Grand Canyon. But there aren't very many of them, and most are located in the West. For many of us, state park lodges and cabins are closer to home. Not only are they convenient-one reason I rank them as "best"-they occupy some of the prettiest places in the state. I live not far from ruggedly beautiful West Virginia, home to nine parks with inviting, well-maintained lodges. Five of the parks, boasting 18-hole golf courses, qualify as "resorts." Nineteen parks offer cabins that can house entire families. When I want to get away, I head for the 54-room Lodge at Blackwater Falls State Park. Its guest amenities-including a good restaurant-rival those of a national park lodge, and the views are almost as spectacular. Wrapped in dense woods, it clings to the edge of the deep canyon of the Blackwater River. In the summer, I go to hike, horseback ride, and swim in the nearby lake. In winter, I ski cross-country trails or soak in the heated indoor pool. The easy tab: just $80 a night for two in peak season. Neighboring Virginia maintains an impressive collection of state park cabins. My favorite park, because it seems so remote and wild, is 4,493-acre Douthat State Park set deep in the Allegheny Mountains. Outdoorsy families come here to fish, hike, canoe, and swim, staying in 32 fully equipped cabins tucked into shady woods. The easy tab: $76 a night for two or $455 for a week. State information offices can provide details on reserving park lodge rooms and cabins. To get you on your way, here are ten states offering some of the best park accommodations. (Listed are beginning rates for two people during the summer. Weekends may be slightly higher.) West Virginia Mountain Fun I'm a hiker, so Blackwater Falls State Park (54 lodge rooms, $80)-one of nine parks in West Virginia with lodges-keeps me returning. Mountain biking on old forest-service roads is also a big deal here. Elsewhere, check into Canaan Valley Resort State Park (250 rooms, $89) for golf. Greens fees are just $35 per person for 18 holes. Stonewall Resort (198 rooms, $109), located in Stonewall Jackson Lake State Park, the state's newest, features a full-service spa. Raft the New River from Pipestem Resort State Park (142 rooms, $77). Nineteen parks offer cabins. Info: 800/225-5982, wvstateparks.com. Alabama Historical Gems Like West Virginia, Alabama operates what it calls six "resort" state parks. Most have swimming pools; four boast 18-hole golf courses. When I visited, historical sightseeing was on my agenda. Near Lakepoint Resort State Park (101 rooms, $60), I sought out Tuskegee Institute National Historical Site, where in 1881 Booker T. Washington founded a school for rural African-Americans. I also toured Russell Cave National Monument, an archaeological site north of Lake Guntersville State Park (100 rooms, $62) where Native Americans camped more than 10,000 years ago. Eleven parks offer cabins. Info: 800/252-7275, dcnr.state.al.us. Virginia On the Lake Idyllic is an overused word, but it's the one that best describes three Virginia state parks where you can rent a cabin by a lake. Douthat (32 cabins, $76), as I said above, is my favorite. But two oddly named parks aren't far behind. Fairy Stone State Park (24 cabins, $68) is named for the little cross-shaped stones found in profusion there. High, forested hills ring Fairy Stone Lake like the protective walls of a castle. Hungry Mother State Park (20 cabins, $89), draped at the foot of mountain ridges, recalls a tragic legend of pioneer hardship. Ten parks offer cabins. Info: 800/933-7275, dcr.state.va.us. Kentucky Wild Water I was introduced to Kentucky's park lodges at Cumberland Falls State Resort Park's DuPont Lodge (52 rooms, $74), where-just steps from the lodge-you can splash down the Cumberland River for five miles on a wild water raft ($55). In all, Kentucky operates lodges in 17 parks, all of which provide a swimming pool, a lakeside beach, or both. Eight offer 18-hole golf courses, including Pine Mountain State Resort Park (30 rooms, $74), set atop a mountain overlooking Kentucky Ridge State Forest. Greens fees are a bargain: $25 weekdays/$30 weekends per person, including a cart. Sixteen parks offer cabins called "cottages." Info: 800/255-7275, kystateparks.com. Oregon By the Beach A yurt is a circular, domed tent, and there's no bathroom. So it really doesn't qualify as a cabin. But Oregon's yurts are the next best thing; also, they're cheap and most are beautifully situated on the beach. Spend a week yurt-hopping down the coast from Fort Stevens State Park (15 yurts) in the north to Harris Beach State Park (six yurts) in the south. Bring sleeping bags. Currently 180 yurts can be reserved in 19 state parks, 14 on the coast. They rent for $27 to $29 a night, sleeping up to five people. Each comes equipped with bunk beds for three, a pullout futon for two, a lockable wood door, electricity, heating, and a skylight. At many, hot showers are a few steps away. Info: 800/452-5687, oregonstateparks.org. South Dakota Great Plains South Dakota's premier park is Custer State Park, where the famed Black Hills rise out of the Great Plains. It offers 82 rooms in four lodges and 107 cabins. At the 68-room State Game Lodge, rates begin at $80. Three other parks also feature lodges. The state's best bargains are its log-style camping cabins (similar to yurts) located in 27 state parks. Sleeping four, they provide electricity but no private bathrooms. Rates are $32 to $37 a night. Lewis and Clark Recreation Area, which has 13 cabins, is a favorite of water skiers. Lodge info: 605/773-3391, state.sd.us. Camping cabins: 800/710-2267, campsd.com. Ohio Woodland Comforts Eight Ohio state parks maintain modern lodges with adjacent cabins called cottages. Rates begin at $75. Some parks have cheaper rates for yurts, tepees, and camping cabins. Among the resort parks, Burr Oak Resort (60 rooms/30 cottages, $75) sits atop a wooded hill overlooking Burr Oak Lake. Hardy guests hike the 22-mile trail circling the lake; most relax at the glass-enclosed pool. Info: 800/282-7275. Utah Red-Rock Spires Indulge me here. Only one Utah state park, Kodachrome Basin, provides cabins-and it has only six. But the park, set in the heart of red-rock canyon country, is so scenically spectacular and the modern cabins at $65 are such a bargain that I can't leave them out. Go for the views, horseback riding, and hiking. I like the Panorama Trail, an easy three-mile path that wanders among red-rock spires. Beautiful Bryce Canyon National Park is just down the road. Info: 435/679-8536, brycecanyoninn.com. Arkansas Island Adventure Arkansas operates four state park lodges, the largest of which-DeGray Lake Resort State Park (96 rooms, $83)-occupies a slender island on DeGray Lake. In the foothills of the Ouachita Mountains, the 13,800-acre lake is a water playground with sandy swimming beaches and a full-service marina. Join a park interpreter on a snorkeling trip or sunset cruise, or play 18 holes of golf. The island is linked to the mainland by a causeway. Eight of the state parks offer cabins. Info: 888/287-2757, arkansasstateparks.com. Indiana Misty Ridges At dawn, when misty clouds climb the forested ridges of Brown County State Park, you might think you were in the Great Smoky Mountains. The park's Abe Martin Lodge (84 rooms, $69), appropriately rustic in wood and stone, is one of seven park lodges in Indiana. Hiking and horseback riding draw the athletic. Arts lovers browse the crafts galleries of nearby Nashville, Indiana. Ten parks offer cabins. Lodge info: 877/563-4371, state.in.us. Cabins: 866/622-6746.

Autumn in Vermont: Bucolic Charms of a Budget Farmstay

Two children skim stones across the still surface of a pond on their way to feed the calves in a red barn. Their parents rock quietly on a farmhouse porch, reading and listening to the children's laughter. It is the autumn of 2003 at a farm bed-and-breakfast in Vermont. For a very modest price, our model family is enjoying a priceless interlude together. To move from the fast pace of today's society to slower rhythms and country pleasures is like taking a step back in time. As evidenced by countless American Christmas cards, a cultural memory still exists of white steepled churches, snow-covered stone walls, and big, red barns. For many, the word Vermont evokes this image, which includes peaceful pastures with cows, colorful autumn trees, gentle green hills, and most of all, farms. To supplement their farming incomes, 18 Vermont farms are now offering farmstays, long popular in Europe. A great variety of accommodations and settings are available, at an average cost (double room) of about $45 per adult per day, including 9 percent tax and a delicious home-cooked breakfast. (Most charge $10 to $35 per child.) Travelers' costs are kept low not only because breakfast is included, but also because farms often offer microwave or barbecue possibilities for guests. If you do decide to go out to a restaurant, prices are exceptionally modest throughout Vermont. The outstanding feature of each farm B&B is the warm, hospitable farm family who will welcome you-they are what make this vacation truly unique. Motels don't offer you hugs and homemade maple syrup! These hosts have been farming for many years, though maybe running a B&B for only a few. You will leave with a glimpse of a way of life linked to our heritage and insight into the lives of those who produce our food and milk. A sampling of Vermont's farm stays The average farm in the five we've listed has more than 200 acres and a history of well over a hundred years. Many have been in the same family for generations. The farmhouses were built in the 1800s but are charming, comfortable, and with modern conveniences. The big dairy barns range from a unique three-story round barn to a picturesque red one built in 1787. Many different kinds of farms welcome guests, from dairy farms to vegetable or fruit farms to those raising llamas or sheep. Even among the five farms mentioned below there are many differences in accommodations. At Marge's B&B, the farm couple lives next door and the other entire house is for guests, including the kitchen, which is well stocked with breakfast foods for guests to fix their own. Liberty Hill includes in its higher price a sumptuous dinner, which was written up in Gourmet magazine! Most offer a big, home-cooked breakfast with bacon and syrup from their own farms. All are authentic working farms, not just farmhouses on former farms. Each is unique, there being no such thing as chain "farm hotels" in Vermont! At Hollister Hill Farm, each room has either a working fireplace or a sauna, as well as a private bath. At others, guests share a bathroom. Most have around three rooms, while some are larger or smaller. Some have a suite or apartment. Couture's is on a paved road, while Marge's is four miles down a country lane. At Liberty Hill you eat with the farm family, and at others you are served with other B&B guests, which offers an opportunity to meet interesting people, sometimes from as far away as Australia, Germany, or South Africa! The important thing is for travelers to inquire carefully about the particular setup to find the farm that suits them best. Your average day Every Vermont farm B&B is within easy reach of restaurants for lunch or dinner, as well as many local attractions and activities. In summer and fall there are festivals, fairs, concerts, and craft shows. There are museums, art shows, and a Ben & Jerry's factory! Hiking, canoeing, and biking opportunities abound. Antiques shops are hidden along the back roads. In winter there are all the outdoor sports, as well as sleigh rides. Many guests never leave the farm during their stay, taking advantage of activities right there, from feeding the animals to hayrides, helping milk the cows, swimming, fishing, snowshoeing, sledding, or cross-country skiing. Sometimes just a walk along a quiet country road is all one seeks. Watching the stars or sitting around a bonfire are among the evening possibilities. Many farms boil maple syrup from their own trees, a fascinating process to watch. (Couture's has its own shop on-site and does a big mail-order business in syrup; see box.) For rainy days there are board and card games, puzzles, or reading. Best of all, these fun activities don't cost a thing! (Note: TVs usually are not in rooms but available in the common living areas. Think of this as an escape from our crazy world!) The vital details You probably have questions: When is the best time to come to Vermont? These farms are generally open all year and busiest from mid-June until the end of October. Spring is when the maple syrup is being tapped and boiled (but late March and April can be dreary). May is lovely, with dandelions blooming in the meadows. Winter has its own special beauties. Most (but not all) B&Bs prefer you stay at least two nights, and to get any feel for farm life you need at least that long. Many people stay three to 10 days. Always reserve ahead of time. What about transportation? You'll need a car. If you plan to fly, Burlington, Vermont, and Manchester, New Hampshire, are the closest airports, although some people fly into Boston, Albany, Hartford, or Montreal and rent a car there. Vermont also has limited bus and train service. What special things do you need to bring? An old pair of boots or sneakers that you don't mind getting muddy is a good idea. Dress comfortably and casually, for the season (layers in winter). Most of all, bring an open attitude and come eager to reach out to new people and experiences. As someone said, "Vermont is America with the volume turned down." How do you learn more? Specific addresses and other information about farmstays in Vermont can be found at vtfarms.org or by calling 802/767-3926; some of the farms have their own individual Web sites. For general information about Vermont, go to vtliving.com and 1-800-vermont.com. five of Vermont's 18 Farm B&Bs

20 Secret Bargains of Oahu for Under $10

Having lived in Hawaii, I know how painful the price of paradise can be. Even for kama'aina (long-term residents), who enjoy 10 to 50 percent off on many goods and services, the island of Oahu is not cheap to enjoy. A generic Waikiki luau is $49, tickets to The Polynesian Cultural Center can be a whopping $54 per person, and the once-free snorkeling spot of Hanauma Bay now charges $3! To save you some dough, I'll divulge these 20 bargain secrets (over half of them free), so your next vacation to the Aloha State is happily affordable. 1. Bond with the band Over 160 years old (it's gone through a few musicians, mind you), the Royal Hawaiian Band (808/527-5666, royalhawaiianband.com) is one of the last links to Hawaii's royalty, commissioned by King Kamehameha III in 1836. Catch the band for absolutely no charge at the scenic 'Iolani Palace Bandstand (in front of the former royal residence) every Friday at noon, and at the Kapi'olani Bandstand in Kapi'olani Park every Sunday at 2 p.m. Stand up and hula along if you must. 2. Lyon in the tropics Green thumbs will go gaga at the Lyon Arboretum (808/988-0456, hawaii.edu/lyonarboretum), a research center tucked back in the moist, verdant Manoa Valley, just ten minutes' drive from Waikiki. Hundreds of species of exotic tropical and Hawaii-specific plants are on display to the public for a suggested donation of $2.50, with guided tours included on Tuesdays at 10 a.m. and Saturdays at 1 p.m. Be sure to check out the nearby hiking trail to the dream-like Manoa Falls while you're there. 3. Walking Waikiki's past Learn about Waikiki's history with free guided walking tours offered by the Native Hawaiian Hospitality Association. The two-hour Queen's Tour takes you around Kapi'olani Park and Queen's Beach, while the Kalia Tour traces the origins of Waikiki, and the home of Olympian swimmer and surfer Duke Kahanamoku. Each tour is at 9 a.m., Monday through Saturday. Info: 808/841-6442 or waikikihistorictrail.com. 4. Free Hollywood movies, Hawaiian-style If you've never watched a movie outdoors in the warm tropical breeze with gentle waves lapping in the background, here's your chance: Every Saturday and Sunday afternoon and evening "Sunset on the Beach" happens near the Kapahulu Pier in Waikiki. Food booths serve local island treats for under $10, musicians croon Hawaiian melodies, and then a 30-foot screen plays free Hollywood films, with Diamond Head looming in the background. Who could ask for more? Info: 808/523-2489. 5. A fishy auction The Kewalo Basin, a harbor built in the 1920s between the Honolulu Airport and Waikiki, is the site of The Honolulu Fish Auction every day at 5 a.m. (don't worry, with the time change you'll be waking up early anyway!). Grab your cup o' java and head to the boats hauling out their fresh catch of local fish like mahimahi, ono, and opah. The colorful dickering, often in local pidgin English, is well worth the early-morning effort. 6. Towering Aloha A Honolulu icon, the Aloha Tower has been greeting guests arriving on cruise ships since 1926. For some of the best views of the city, hop aboard its creaky elevator to the top of the 184-foot structure, all for free. It adjoins the pleasant Aloha Tower Marketplace mall and is open all year long from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. 7. Pray in Hawaiian The New England-style Kawaiahao Church is Honolulu's oldest. Built in the 1800s out of 14,000 hand-quarried coral slabs, it served as the church of the Hawaiian royalty (King Lunalilo has his own impressive mausoleum in the back). The church offers soul-stirring services in Hawaiian and English every Sunday at 10:30 a.m., with songs sung in Hawaiian by a renowned choir (957 Punchbowl St., 808/522-1333). 8. Learn to live life like a Hawaiian Be sure never to pay for hula, ukulele, or lei-making lessons in Waikiki: The Royal Hawaiian Shopping Center (2201 Kalakaua Ave., 808/922-0588) offers all for free! It's located right behind the Royal Hawaiian Hotel in the heart of Waikiki. Hula lessons are Mondays and Fridays at 10 a.m. (Ilima Court, third floor); ukulele lessons are Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays at 11:30 a.m. (Hibiscus Court, first floor); lei-making lessons are Mondays and Wednesdays at 11 a.m. (Orchid Court, third floor). 9. Lei it on, for a song Honolulu's Chinatown is the real thing, with noodle shops, herbalists, and storefronts looking like they haven't had a makeover for a century or so. Amid all the color is Maunakea Street, which could be called Lei Lane with its rows of flower shops and elderly ladies stringing garlands in open doorways. What would be a $20 lei at the airport will only cost you a few bucks here. Call Cindy's Lei Shoppe (1034 Maunakea St., 808/536-6538), and they can even deliver leis costing as little as $4 right to your curbside car door (since parking is tight in Chinatown). 10. Learn more than you ever wanted to know about pineapples The Dole Plantation, in the rich red earth of Wahiawa in Central Oahu, is a fun, free-of-charge destination. Begun as a roadside stand in 1950, the large center has history displays, gift shops, free samples, demonstrations on how to properly cut pineapples-even a $5 pineapple maze (the largest in the world according to Guinness) and a $7.50, two-mile train ride through the plantation. Info: 808/621-8408, dole-plantation.com. 11. Discover a princess Most guests at the classy Sheraton Princess Ka'iulani (120 Ka'iulani Ave., 808/922-5811) in Waikiki don't realize that the hotel is built on the former Ainahau Estate where the young princess lived. For no charge, you can partake in a guided tour of the grounds and historical rooms Monday through Friday at 4 p.m. Included is a reading of the poem "Island Rose," which Robert Louis Stevenson penned for Ka'iulani. 12. Free fish gazing Built in 1904 and holding four impressive galleries of tanks, the Waikiki Aquarium (808/923-9741) is a steal at $7 a ticket, but there are two other lesser known but free aquariums in Waikiki as well. One, The Tube, at the DFS Galleria Waikiki shopping mall (330 Royal Hawaiian Ave., 808/931-2655), is a 65,000-gallon, two-story saltwater aquarium you can actually stroll through. The second is the Oceanarium Restaurant at the Pacific Beach Hotel (2490 Kalakaua Ave., 808/922-1233), a three-story, 280,000-gallon saltwater tank, also free. 13. Shave off the heat Probably the most famous yet humble shave-ice (known to you mainlanders as "snow cone") store in the world, Matsumoto's (66-087 Kamehameha Hwy., 808/637-4827, matsumotoshaveice.com) near the North Shore town of Haleiwa offers this local delicacy starting at only $1.20 per cone, and that includes a dollop of ice cream as well (with red beans, an Asian favorite, it's 60 cents more). 14. Budget bus blast One of the best-kept secrets on Oahu is the public bus ride around the entire island of Oahu for $2! The route is over 150 miles, and bus tours run by big outfits will charge you over $50 for the same pleasure. The benefit of riding "The Bus" (as it's known) is that you can get off and on at different beaches or towns for up to two hours without incurring a second fare -- it's a treat to escape the cement of Waikiki and discover the lush island's more remote shores. Take Circle Island Bus 52 or 55 from the Ala Moana Shopping Center. Info: 808/848-5555, thebus.org. 15. Tea for three (dollars) The Urusenke Teahouse in Waikiki (reservations: 808/923-3059) is a soothing, authentic Japanese teahouse that presents a full-fledged ancient tea ceremony on Wednesdays and Fridays starting at 10 a.m., for a small donation of three dollars. You sip tea made from 400-year-old bushes in a reverent setting (long pants and socks required) and soak up the Zen atmosphere away from Waikiki's bustle. 16. Pig out, local style Irifune (563 Kapahulu Ave., 808/737-1141) is usually full of locals in the know. Snapshots of friends and Kabuki masks cover the walls, fishing nets and glow-in-the-dark stars hang above diners, and there's a TV fish tank in the bathroom. Huge Japanese meals with all the trimmings go for under $10. 17. Aloha art With over 35,000 Asian, Western, and Pacific works, The Honolulu Academy of Art (900 S. Beretania St., 808/532-8700, honoluluacademy.org) is well worth relinquishing a day at the beach for. The admission is only $7, but you can avoid that by arriving on the first Wednesday of each month when it's free. Included are the James A. Michener Collection of Japanese prints, and royal feather capes and tapa hangings. 18. Palacial yesteryear Queen Emma's Summer Palace (808/595-6291, daughtersofhawaii.org), along the Pali Highway in dramatic Nu'uanu Valley, is just five minutes from the center of Honolulu. For $5 you can witness how the royalty lived in this mansion with its rich koa-wood furniture, and sumptuous grounds where the queen entertained. 19. Polo in paradise Yes, Oahu has it all-even polo grounds. Prince Charles himself has played at the Waimanalo Polo Grounds, located on the island's windward coast near Waimanalo town at the base of the spectacularly ridged Ko'olau Mountains. For $3, you can take in a real polo game every Sunday at 2:30 p.m. (practice games Wednesdays and Fridays at 4:30 p.m.) from April to October, with plenty of shade, a snack bar, and the kids get to pet the resident ponies as well. Info: 808/947-6511, honolulupolo.com. 20. Ascend Diamond Head Once free, the popular hike to the top of Diamond Head now costs $1, but it's still one of the best deals on the island. You park inside of the actual crater (called Le'ahi and the site of human sacrifices on its western slope) and ascend about a mile of trail, ducking through tunnels, ramparts, and up steps built during World War II. You're rewarded with certainly the best view of Waikiki available anywhere. 21. Shrimp surprise When traveling on the North Shore, stop by Giovanni's Shrimp Truck. Its heaping plates of locally harvested shrimp go slightly beyond our budget ($11) but are worth the splurge, especially with its infamous Hot & Spicy sauce ("hot as our volcanic lava") that's also sold separately for $5 a bottle. Decorated with comments handwritten by loyal customers, the truck is along the Kamehameha Highway near the town of Kahuku. Info: 888/923-9494.