Reach Deep Into the Grab Bag

This sounds crude and heretical, but we find cocktails to be kind of like cheeseburgers and doughnuts--if we're going to have one, we want it to be outstanding. Lucky for us, cocktail culture is in its second golden age: Ambitious bartenders are searching out fresh and/or exotic ingredients, then mixing them with care. Here's what to drink, and where. Budapest Gresham Puszta: apricot palinka and Tokai wine. Four Seasons Hotel Gresham Palace, Roosevelt Tér 5-6, 011-361/268-6000. Buenos Aires Vanilla Margarita: vanilla tequila, Cointreau, orange juice, sugar. Gran Bar Danzon, Libertad 1161, 011-54/11-4811-1108. Hong Kong Lychee Caprioska: lemongrass vodka, fresh lychees, lime, brown sugar. 1/5, 9 Star St., Wanchai, 011-852/2520-2515. Istanbul Bomb Baby: vodka, watermelon, mint, cardamom. 360 Istanbul, 32/309 Istiklal Cad., Misir Apt. K8, BeyoØglu, 011-90/212-251-1042. London Vanderbilt: cognac, cherry Heering, bitters. Milk & Honey, Poland St., Soho, 011-44/20-7292-9940. Los Angeles Shikomi Martini: sake, Midori, lemon juice, Japanese cucumber. Geisha House, 6633 Hollywood Blvd., 323/460-6300. Madrid Letania: cinnamon vodka, cranberry and raspberry juices, fruit. Glass Bar, Hotel Urban, Carrera de San Jerónimo 34, 011-34/91-787-7770. Miami Mojito: light rum, mint, sugar, lime juice, club soda. Skybar, The Shore Club, 1901 Collins Ave., 305/695-3100. Moscow Moscow Mojito: rum and wild berries. Pavilion, 7 Bolshoi Patriarshy Per., 011-7/495-203-5110. New York City Jamaican Firefly: dark rum, ginger beer, lime juice, candied ginger. Pegu Club, 77 W. Houston St., 2nd Fl., 212/473-7348. Tel Aviv Passion: Vodka, lemon, sugar, pineapple, passion fruit syrup. Rocca, 8 Ramat Yam, Herzliya Pituach, 011-972/9-951-5122. Tokyo Kir Royal: champagne and crème de cassis. Carmenere, Omotesando Jingumae 4-4-7 BFI, 011-81/3-3401-6779. Zürich Sidecar: brandy, triple sec, lemon juice. Widder Hotel, Rennweg 7, 011-41/44-224-2526.

Now and then you have to do something a little crazy--like fire a machine gun, or embarrass yourself attempting alfresco tai chi. You may not be as adventurous as you once were, but any jitters are more than made up for by being able to brag about it once you get home. Brussels: Learn tai chi in a city park. Full-day session includes picnic. Tai Chi Relaxation, 011-32/26-49-84-74, taichirelaxation.be, $97. Cape Town: Go kloofing: Hike, jump, and swim through Suicide Gorge. Day Trippers, 011-27/21-511-4766, http://www.daytrippers.co.za/, $90. Cincinnati: The new Purple People Bridge Climb takes folks over the Ohio River. 859/261-6837,purplepeoplebridgeclimb.com, from $60. Las Vegas: Fire rounds from an M-16, Uzi, and more. Las Vegas Gun Range & Firearms Center, 702/386-4867, lasvegasgunrange.net, from $50. London: Tour the Thames by speedboat. London RIB Voyages, 011-44/207-928-2350, $44. Quebec City: Fly in an open-cockpit biplane. Aero Production, 888/871-6095, aeroproduction.com, $76 (based on two people). Rio de Janeiro: Work out on a stationary bike planted inside a modified bus. Bus Bike, 011-55/21-24-90-22-57, busbike.com.br, from $20. Rome: Let an Italian trainer be your guide as you jog through the city. Sight Jogging, 011-39/347-33-53-185, sightjogging.it, $85. Stockholm: Kayak through the heart of the city. Paddling Stockholm, 011-46/87-07-81-26-89, paddlingstockholm.se, $98. Sydney: Catch a wave during a one-hour private surfing lesson. Manly Surf School, 011-61/2-99-77-69-77, manlysurfschool.com, $80. Vancouver: Watch the sun set and the moon rise during a full-moon kayaking excursion in the harbor. Ecomarine Ocean Kayak Centre, 888/425-2925, ecomarine.com, $48.

There are several reasons to spend too much money on a book that, most likely, you'll flip through only once or twice: You were moved at an art exhibit and wanted a memento; you visited a city and craved a deeper perspective; you simply wandered into a bookstore and fell in love all over again with the heft and lavishness of a big, rich book. These books are more than books--they're totems, things that remind us (and our friends and neighbors) of what we really care about, even if we rarely have time to ponder those subjects at our leisure. But while we're all about a spur-of-the-moment splurge, wait until you get home, if you can, to make the purchase. Coffee-table books are almost always significantly discounted on Amazon. Ruins of Ancient Rome: Drawings in the Eternal City by French architects between 1786 and 1924, edited by Massimiliano David. Getty Publications, $75. American Cities: Historical illustrations and maps of nine U.S. cities, edited by Paul E. Cohen and Henry G. Taliaferro. Assouline, $70. Richard Serra: The Matter of Time: America's greatest sculptor. What he can conjure with a piece of curved metal is absolutely astounding. Steidl, $75. The Gates: Christo and Jeanne-Claude's Central Park spectacle, now part of New York City art lore. Hugh Lauter Levin Associates, $25. Surfing Photographs from the Seventies: A California and Hawaii time capsule, feathered hair and all, by photographer Jeff Divine. T. Adler, $40. Bygone Days: Bison, S.D.: John Penor's illuminating photographs of a South Dakota ranch and town between 1907 and 1957. DAP, $85. The Snippy World Of New Yorker Fashion Artist Michael Roberts: Effervescent collages from a fashion insider. Steidl, $85. Palm Springs Style: Modernist architecture without all those distracting strip malls, by Aline Coquelle. Assouline, $40. Life After Death: New Leipzig Paintings: Amazing selection of contemporary German art from the Rubell Family Collection, by Mark Coetzee and Laura Steward Heon. Mass Moca, $30. Egyptian Palaces and Villas: Photos of 41 opulent estates, a must for any maximalist, by Shirley Johnston and Sherif Sonbol. Abrams, $50. Gregory Crewdson: 1985--2005: Spooky, stylized suburban photography--for those who like melodrama served cold. Hatje Cantz, $60. Terminal 5: Art debacle at JFK airport: An opening party so raucous, the exhibit was closed before it opened. Lukas & Sternberg, $45.

Sure, you can make do with a scratchy airline pillow--if the airline still hands one out--and you'll survive if the minibar only stocks Dewar's when what you really want is Macallan. But this isn't really about making do, is it? The right accessories help smooth out the never-ending bumpiness of modern travel; they even civilize it a bit. (Just because it's ultimately a losing battle doesn't mean we shouldn't fight the good fight.) If nothing else, this frivolous gear will drive your seatmate mad with jealousy--and one must take one's comfort where one can. Gourmet getaway bag: New from Built NY, the company known for stylish neoprene wine totes. builtny.com, $25, no phone orders. Luggage tags: In a variety of patterns, some Pucci-esque, many psychedelic. From Tepper Jackson. 800/227-0314, plumparty.com, $13. Travel candle: By San Francisco--based ElizabethW; scents include hyacinth and magnolia. 800/781-6126, elizabethw.com, $20. Eye masks: L.A.-based Strawberry Jim has 18 styles ranging from the cute to the hilarious (such as one that says i'm with stupid, which works best when you're flying alone). 213/278-7127, strawberryjim.com, $25. Flask: Designed by Carl Mertens, in brushed stainless steel, from legendary Manhattan store Moss. 866/888-6677, mossonline.com, $100. Towelettes: Herban Essentials wipes are antibacterial, antiseptic, and gentle on skin. And they come individually wrapped. 805/565-0273, herbanessentials.com, $14. Slippers: Quilted silk with suede soles and a travel pouch, from Hong Kong luxury brand Shanghai Tang; in pink and navy. 888/252-8264, shanghaitang.com, $70. Alarm clock: Muji's travel alarm folds into an aluminum case the size of a business-card holder. 800/447-6662, momastore.org, $28. Photo frame: Aspinal of London's travel frames are calf leather with a moiré silk lining. 888/325-3302, aspinaloflondon.com, $65 (includes shipping from the U.K.). Scrabble folio travel edition: The small, ridged board holds tiles steady--particularly useful on turbulent flights. 800/843-2665, barnesandnoble.com, $15. Passport case: Graphic Image's covers are made from ultrasoft Moroccan goatskin: Because you want to make a nice impression on the immigration officers. 800/232-5550, graphicimagenewyork.com, $38. Pillow set: Satori Comfort Sets come with a microbead pillow, a matching fleece blanket, and a heavy-duty plastic carrying case. 212/206-0421, satoripillows.com, $70.